LUV
LESSONS
by
SUNNI BOEHME
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Keeping romance alive requires attention to pleasing yourself. Make a list of what you like to do. Ask your partner or friend to make the same list. Not things you want to do together but, things you each love to do whether you are alone or with someone else. Doing what you love pleases and satisfies you and that makes it easier to have a relationship with you. |
When we are much more focused on pleasing others, it is more difficult to have a relationship with us. After you have each created your own pleasure lists then exchange and create another list of ways you might be able to enjoy these things together.
A
very important item at this point is to be sure you allow time for yourself -
doing exactly what you like to do by yourself.
Schedule time each week as ME time.
It might be reading or taking a bath or talking to another long
distance friend on the phone or cleaning your bedroom but, it’s ME time.
Special time that you do not share with that other person.
Now
that you know clearly what you love to do.
You can plan a trip together. Make
some choices and then get videos or books from the library.
Or attend a travel lecture with someone.
Don’t ever move in with or marry someone you haven’t taken a trip
with. It’s a great way to test
the water about really being able to co-habitate.
If
you don’t think you can afford to take a trip together
look at it as an exciting project.
How can we earn enough money to take this trip together.
There are many ways to earn some extra money to pay for a fun trip.
Delivering phone books together or market research.
Dozens of ways that I cover in the class on Living a Luxury Lifestyle
on your Current Income.
At
the beginning of each month obtain a copy of EVENTS ,available at any major
hotel in your area. For your date tonight take a look through all the events
available to you and highlight what you would like to do in one color and what
your partner/friend would like to do in another color.
Keep a separate Event calendar for what you want to plan for because
planning takes time and money and sometimes you may have to sell some used
books or have a rummage sale together to come up with the money.
Anyway, it’s all fun. The
planning makes it more fun and you will begin to experience the joy of
manifestation. When you decide
you want something it sometimes comes to you in magical ways. The secret to
getting what you want in life is to DECIDE what you want.
