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What
do we really know about always? The dictionary says, "For all
times, Forever.." It also says that Forever means, "For
everlasting time, At all times, A seemingly very long time."
Sounds like they might mean the same things?
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I have been seeing these words creating a lot of problems for people.
They vowed "Forever" or say "Always" and are stuck
in that black hold where there is no end.My son, Loren told me not to use those words because we have no way of
knowing how they will affect our lives in the future.
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Nothing should be always. If we have an always that goes on and on, how
do we create something different to learn from? We need for things to
end. I once took a class and they were teaching the anatomy of control.
They said that to be in control of something means that you start it,
change it and stop it.
So if you start something and it goes on forever, you are not in
control? A lot of people start things but never finish them. Does that
mean that their things go on forever? Usually it means the person
involved is not in control of his world.
Then there are people who never start anything but they are always
changing everything. Again, out of control.
How about the ones that want to put a stop to everything? "We
can't do that anymore." "Don't chew gum." "Don't
talk." they think that they are the ones in control but with all
that stop, stop, they really lose more control than they gain. And the
sad part is that they never get to start anything nice.
It must be very draining to never see a project completed. To wonder
what it will look like whenever it does get done. I know that it is
very annoying to have those around them, who are always changing
things. And "Stop" usually can only create fear or
resentment.
Always used to be a word that I like using. I will always be married,
in love, faithful, of service, kind and so many other things that I
tagged onto the always. Then I found out that "always" really
doesn't service me as a person.
How about the vow of "always" to a mate in the years 1437
that is still being run out in 2007. They haven't figured out that they
don't have to have this "always" in their lives but they are
stuck in this rut. They have learned what they needed to from the two
personalities but now are stuck with "always."
I have a sister that I am sure took a vows of poverty and servitude
many lifetimes ago. She still has to give away anything that she gets
so she never has enough for herself. Her vows are not serving her in
this lifetime but she didn't really believe at the time that she said,
"Forever" it was as long as it really is.
When one thinks about the vastness of the universe, the infinity of it
all, why would a infinity God create a finite world? He didn't. At the
end of this lifetime it doesn't say, THE END. God wouldn't have wanted
it that way. He created us to experience and unless your life is much
more exciting than mine...like they say in show business, you haven't
seen nothing yet.
We get to experience the Good, the Bad and the Ugly, along with a whole
lot more that makes living the adventure that it is.
Have you seen all the rainbows, all the sunsets, all the cute things
that happen on a daily basis? No, because it takes a long time to do
all of that.
When we put "always" out there it locks us into a future that
is cyclical. When we have been locked-in for so long, it amazes me that
some of us can function at all. We have all these old rules that hamper
our present time decisions.
There are things that we would like to try but when we start them, we
bump into our old rules. In order to be able to function in present
time, we need to undo all our past vows that had "always" and
"forever" attached. It is possible to rescind old rules that
no longer serve us but most of us don't know how to do this. It is
simply the rescinding of all old vows that we have ever made in past
lifetimes. This might need to be done more than once. The rule of thumb
is that one should do this three times.
Once this is done, (or if done a couple of times over a period of time)
one should be able to mover ahead and create things that seem
impossible.
When was the last time you experienced what another person was thinking
or feeling? Haven't you ever wanted to walk throught a wall? How about
levitation? Or even manifesting what you want or need today? All things
are possible when we let go of the barriers in our thinking.
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